The Ten Commandments tell us to love, but can we really just turn it on like that? Nati Shohat/FLASH90

Should We Control Our Emotions?

Throughout the Bible, we are instructed to love. But how can we be expected to just turn our emotions on and off?

If my wife said to me, “I order you now! Love me!” What would I do? Probably wouldn’t be feeling the love. If she was lucky (she is), I might try harder to be nice to her. But that’s not going to last long. If love does not flow from a heart-felt desire, it will not endure and isn’t authentic. There must be an inner longing to be closer to and care for someone to call it love.  How is it then that God commands us to love? Can we control our feelings? The repeated commandments in the Bible to…