When someone criticizes or condemns another person for a particular flaw, it is often precisely the flaw that they themselves possess. For example, someone who constantly accuses others of lying may not be entirely honest and sincere themselves. Or someone who only sees stingy people around them might struggle with being generous. When a teacher repeatedly complains about her undisciplined students, she may herself have difficulty setting clear boundaries. Or when someone criticizes a friend for being too arrogant, they might need to recognize that they themselves behave arrogantly toward others.

Life philosophy

I love this proverb. It perfectly expresses the “world of reflections,” a life philosophy to which I feel deeply connected. This understanding leads to self-reflection. No matter how real the external reality may be, it is simultaneously also a mirror of what is happening inside us. Therefore, every person and every situation we encounter is a kind of mirror. The proverb is a call to look inward before we judge others. It promotes self-awareness, humility, and compassion, and also warns against...

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